I am learning to love her again each and every day... My deepest hurt is not being better for Her and for Them... I was disappointed she wasn't what I wanted her to be and nothing gave me the right to even think that. Yes, we are called to be responcible for each other, but that does not mean that we can decide what that person should be... I see this from so many views now, not just about Her. There is another Her in my life who is not who i think she should be, who she could be...who maybe she doesn't want to be and i am dealing with that... i am dealing with my attitudes about that just as i have had to do with the original Her.
We are more alike then we are different... and we need each other... I need Her... and i also need Her#2.